I don’t feel comfortable around the group of guys that are supposed to be my best friends.
They treat my sexuality as if it’s the biggest and most interesting part about me. They love that I love girls. Anything we have in common they somehow relate back to how I’m “such a lesbian” and that it’s “cool”
Yet they go and call each other faggots and any other derogatory term they can think of that insults my sexuality.
I don’t want to hear any more rape jokes. They’re not funny. The fact that you know two of your closest female friends have been raped doesn’t make it okay because you’re “helping her see the funny side of it.” That just makes you more of a negligent and inconsiderate piece of shit.
I understand a lot of this is said because they may not be well educated in these subjects, but I don’t feel comfortable approaching or calling any of them out on it without being shut down or laughed at.
Get new frieeeeeeeeeends (I know the feeling, and slowly weeding those people out of my life has been really good for me)